Turning Down Self-Damaging “Invitations”
Other people can send us negative, hurtful, or demeaning “invitations” to feel badly about ourselves, but it’s up to us to decide whether or not we’ll accept those kinds of invitations.
Psychology, Philosophy and Real Life published the following articles in April, 2016.
Other people can send us negative, hurtful, or demeaning “invitations” to feel badly about ourselves, but it’s up to us to decide whether or not we’ll accept those kinds of invitations.
Taken too far, self scrutiny ceases to be a route to becoming a better person and turns into something else — bullying — which can be every bit as damaging when we do it to ourselves as when we do it to others.
How many times have you questioned yourself about a choice you made? After making what turns out to be a bad decision, do you scratch your head and wonder, “What ever was I thinking?”
Clinicians are increasingly coming to the view that a lack of empathy means some narcissists find it difficult if not impossible to be genuinely remorseful.
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