“Trusting” Comments, Page 2

12 Responses to “Trusting”

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   Evan Hadkins

   27th September 2008

   11

   Hi Diane,

   Thanks for your comment there is lots in it.

   Maybe the loving you speak of and the caring that Lunna speaks of are different. The loving you care of may have more sense of mutuality – though Lunna may disagree.

   Do you think that trust comes before love? Maybe sometimes love comes first (especially in-love, but this may not be the love you mean).

   Life is scary without trust. But some peoples experience of abuse and betrayal may mean that life is scary for them.

   There’s lots for me to think about in your comment. I’d like to hear more of your experience of life getting better if you trust.

   Thanks again for your comment.

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   Diane

   1st October 2008

   12

   Hi Evan and All,

   I think trust and love walk hand in hand. Simultaneous so to speak!
   If your trust is faltering for any reason, you pull away the love as well.. Because fear is usually happening in some form. Which discernment could be playing into it or emotional memory as well.

   If you have been abused/ or suffered betrayal which is quite a similar sense I think. They both cause trust to be broken. Which often makes a person reframe experience and look and examine different possibilities in relationships with others. Discernment qualities rise to attention. And life does get scarier. At least for a time it does.

   Trust has to be relearned and different boundaries may be put up… after abuse/betrayal some may last, others are up for awhile until your trust facter rises.

   To care for another human being, plant, earth etc. is an act of love.

   Personally each day my trust/love in others is on my mind and in my heart. My day goes by with such a higher quality of presence. I am more at ease like you Evan. I find it frees me up to be more available to everyone I encounter from family to a person in a store, or at work. Smiling and joy just come more easily.

   Yes, some people are not to be trusted as well. I agree with that.
   That is a fact of life here.

   You don’t have to choose trust…but it sure beats the alternative.

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